Thought For The Week

by Wendy A.M. Prosser on Sunday 5 October 2014

RosebudAn unhealthy habit I have: fear of other people’s opinions of me. This holds me back from doing what I want, saying what I think, being who I am, achieving my dreams.

But it’s never too late to change. I don’t even like most other people that much, for goodness sake. Why should I care what they think?

If what I do/say/dream/am is good enough for me, it’s good enough.

My challenge to myself: stop worrying what other people think and start doing what matters.

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Not The Writing Process Blog Hop

by Wendy A.M. Prosser on Sunday 14 September 2014

Pen and blank padI feel really mean. Many months ago, Kari Ann Ramadorai (visit her website here) very kindly nominated me to pen a post for the Writing Process Blog Hop. It should have appeared in March; now it’s September, and still nothing. I hate to be unreliable and I feel bad for letting Kari Ann down (though I doubt she would’ve lost any sleep over my no-show, me hardly being a blogosphere luminary and all that…).

So why didn’t I write the post? The clue is in the title. To be sure, I do have a writing process, and though I wouldn’t recommend it to others (nearly 6 years and counting on a single novel, anyone?) I could have cobbled together a piece on the subject, posted it and come away with a clear conscience.

Except, being asked to consider how I write made me think about what I write, too, and I quickly realized that in no way am I qualified to give other people advice on how to do it. When I’ve done a serious amount of writing, when I’ve published many books and made many sales, maybe then I’ll know something worth reading on the subject. But until that glorious day dawns, I shall henceforth keep quiet.

For a long time, writing about writing has distracted me from doing the writing that matters. Writing about writing hasn’t made me a writer, even if I like to pretend it has.

Many aspiring authors produce excellent blogs, of course; genuinely inspiring and helpful blogs with lessons their readers can learn from. Unfortunately, all I have to offer is glacially slow progress, tiresomely repetitive starts, stops and restarts (“it’s all going to be different this time, honest!”) and zero wisdom to share.

So now I will turn my words into deeds, and focus on contributing something of substance to the world rather than doling out trite hints and tips.

I ducked out of the Writing Process Blog Hop, but learned a valuable lesson myself: that frankly, it’s kind of embarrassing to blog on a subject about which I have nothing worthwhile to say. And that I promise not to do it again; or least, not until my achievements justify all that hot air.

And talking of hot air… back to the novel…

(And thanks to Kari Ann for the blog-changing experience.)

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Spring daffodils

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Stop sign

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Thermodynamic stability

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by Wendy A.M. Prosser Friday 21 February 2014
Baby Bagpuss and Khufu

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Paper hearts

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Constellation Fornax EXtreme Deep Field

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Putting feet up in a hammock

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